9 Easy Memory Games for Kids

Boost memory with these simple, fun memory games for kids. They are suitable for preschoolers and older children too.

The Benefits of Memory Games

Memory games generally work by improving working memory. Working memory refers to the information you hold in your brain that you can access immediately.

Having a strong working memory means you can retain information and apply it. Solving maths problems in your head or remembering the names of people you’ve just met are examples of working memory.

Children with strong working memories can focus on activities and retain information with accuracy.

In turn, they can follow multi-step instructions, incorporate new information into their thinking, and then use their knowledge in a range of new, different scenarios.

All of these skills impact children’s cognitive development and ability to learn, both as preschoolers and throughout their lives.

9 Working Memory Games for Kids

Here are a few of my favourite memory games for children:

1. Matching Card Memory Games

At the top of the list is one of the best memory games that kids should all play often.

Lots of matching card games are available on the market, so choose a set that will capture your children’s imagination. (I have a set of printable memory card games in my store as well)

How to play:

• Place the cards face down and spread them out. Each player tries to find a matching pair by flipping over two cards.
• If they do not match, then the cards are put back in the same place, face down. If they do match, the player keeps them and takes another turn.
• When all the cards have been paired up, the player with the most pairs is the winner.

This builds children’s memories by requiring them to take account of each picture and remember where it is placed.

For younger children, start with 4 or 5 pairs of matching cards and work up to more pairs as they get more confident.

2. What’s on the Tray (aka Kim’s Game)

Kim’s Game is a classic early memory game used in many early childhood settings. It’s very simple to set up and can easily be done at home with items you have on hand.

How to play:

• Place objects on a tray, starting with around 4. These should be everyday items such as a comb, a key, a rock and a banana.
• Show the tray to your child and let them look at the objects, then cover the tray over and ask them to name the objects.

This activity enhances children’s visualization and visual memory skills.

To add interest to the game you can take an item away each time and ask them what is missing.

3. The Magic Cup Game

This game is also popular because it has a multitude of benefits, the most important of which is that it builds concentration which is necessary for improving memory.

How to play:

• Place 3 cups upside down and a small item such as a ball, figure or coin.
• The item is placed under one of the cups, the cups are moved around and the child has to watch them move and then show you which cup the item is under.

This can be made harder by adding more cups, moving them more quickly, or shuffling more. Your children may also like to switch roles and have a go at moving the cups for themselves.

4. Traffic Lights

Here’s a fun outdoor game to get children up and moving around.

How to play:

• Tell the kids that when you say “green light” they may run, when you say “red light” they must stop and when you say “amber/orange light” they may walk.
• As they become more adept at the Red Light, Green Light game you can add more instructions such as “roundabout” to get them to spin around, “flat tyre” for sitting down or “it’s raining” for windscreen wiper movements with the arms.

This helps to build memory by linking abstract instructions to physical movements. They have to remember both the command and what to do about it.

5. I Went to the Moon and I Took a….

This game is best played in a group setting with lots of different personalities adding to the list, but could also be played on a smaller scale around the dining table at home.

How to play:

• The first person to play starts the sentence, in this case, “I went to the moon and I took a…” and picks something they take with them such as a “teddy bear.”
• The next person must then repeat the first player’s phrase and add their own item e.g. “I went to the moon and I took a teddy bear and a flag.”
• Each player then adds another item and must repeat the entire list before adding their own item.

This game can be played with a different starting sentence e.g. “I went to the shops and I bought” or “I went to the park and I…”

The repetitive structure of the game strengthens children’s memory.

6. Drum Beats

This sound activity builds kids’ listening skills which benefits memory by exercising their auditory processing system and laying the foundation for recognizing different sounds as part of speech, which is important in learning to read and write.

How to play:

• Use drums, or upturned pots and pans, to play rhythms. One player “sends” the rhythm, by playing it on their drum, and the other must then send it back, by playing it on theirs. 
• Take turns to come up with the rhythm.

7. Simon Says

Simon Says is a classic childhood game and a great way of building memory skills because it requires that children listen carefully and respond correctly, remembering and referencing a set of rules.

This careful listening is required to remember information that is given verbally and will pay long-term dividends as children will need to hear and remember verbal instructions throughout their schooling years.

How to play:

• Simon Says requires that children only follow instructions that are preceded by the words “Simon says.”
• For example: “Simon says pat your head” should elicit a response whilst “pat your head” should not.

Here are 70 Simon Says commands to try.

8. In the River, On the Bank

Another game with large movement incorporated into it is the very simple, but effective, ‘In the River, On the Bank.’

How to play:

• Mark out an area using rope or tape that can serve as the river and have children stand on the bank of the river by standing outside of the river area.
• The premise of the game is very simple – you will give instructions and the kids will do the opposite.
• If you say “on the bank” they will jump into the ‘river’ and if you say “in the river” they will hop back up onto the bank.

This game seems very simple but it requires a great deal of processing and accessing the memory of the rules, great for developing strong working memory.

In order to play kids must remember which part is the river and which part is the bank, then remember to reverse the instructions and act accordingly.

9. Incorporate Technology

Many parents are wary of using technology, and while limiting screen time is wise, it is an important part of life and culture. When used in moderation, technology can support children’s learning and development.

Studies have shown that technology is most effective in helping children to learn when they use it alongside a parent, teacher, or peer.

So, if you’d like to embrace technology, then playing some kids’ memory games together with your children will be beneficial for them.

There are plenty of apps to choose from so experiment with a few and see what works for you and your kids.