Stories can be a great way to teach young children about diversity and tolerance.
Books do not only teach young children about others, but they can also provide a form of representation. It is comforting for a child to see their own religion, race or identity represented in stories.
Diversity isn’t just about cultural differences though, and can include gender roles, religion, sexual orientation, special needs and lots more. Here are some of the best books about diversity for preschoolers, grouped into seven themes.
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1. Celebrating Differences
The following books are about celebrating our differences and embracing diversity in general. They include multiple aspects of diversity.
Our Diversity Makes Us Stronger by Elizabeth Cole
In this story, Nick is worried that his peers will find it odd that he wears glasses. By chatting to them, he learns how diverse they all are and how there is beauty in being unique.
Different Like Me by Xochitl Dixon
This book shows children how being different can make you feel like a fish out of water, but that we should appreciate and accept our differences and the things that make us special.
It’s OK to be Different by Sharon Purtill
This is another great book for teaching children to show kindness and to respect that we all have different abilities.
2. Sexual Orientation and Family Structures
These books delve into different family structures and having parents with diverse sexual orientations.
And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell
This is a story about two male penguins at Central Park Zoo named Roy and Silo who also want to start a family and raise a baby penguin of their own.
The Family Book by Todd Parr
The Family Book is all about different types of families such as larger or smaller families, those with same-sex parents, etc.
Stella Brings the Family by Miriam B. Schiffer
Stella’s class is celebrating Mother’s Day, but she has two daddies. In this cute story, she learns that families might look different but they are still filled with love.
In Our Mothers’ House by Patricia Polacco
Marmee and Meema are two moms who raise their multicultural children in a home with love and laughter, despite some other families not accepting them.
3. Traditional Gender Roles and Gender Stereotypes
These books challenge traditonal gender norms and stereotypes.
Pink is for Boys by Robb Pearlman
This book challenges the stereotypical pink/blue gender binary and encourages children to express themselves in any way and do the things that make them happy, regardless of their gender.
The Worst Princess by Anna Kemp and Sara Ogilvie
This story is a personal favourite and challenges the traditional trope of the princess wanting to live happily ever after with her prince. Princess Sue wants mischief, adventure and to befriend the dragon.
William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow
This classic book addresses gender stereotypes by telling the story of William, a boy who really wants a doll to care for, challenging societal expectations.
Not All Princesses Dress in Pink by Jane Yolen and Heidi E.Y. Stemple
Using princesses as a metaphor, this book challenges the stereotypes and suggests that girls can be sporty, messy, wear tiaras, or be whoever they want to be.
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis
Inspired by the author’s son, this book tells the tale of a boy who enjoys dressing up and embracing activities traditionally associated with girls.
Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love
Julian is mesmerized by some beautifully-dressed women on the subway and he wants to dress up in his own fabulous mermaid costume. This story is about self-acceptance and expression.
The Boy and the Bindi by Vivek Shraya
This is a story about a young boy who is curious about his mother’s bindi and explores the concepts of gender and self-expression. It is also a great introduction to Hindu culture.
4. Gender Expressions and Gender Identities
These stories are about embracing your true identity and expressing yourself, and how not everyone identifies with the labels they are given by society. They explain concepts like gender fluidity, pronouns and being transgender.
Red: A Crayon’s Story by Michael Hall
Challenging the binary stereotype that girls love pink and boys love blue – among other things – this book about a crayon that is labelled as red but discovers it is actually blue, teaches children about embracing their true identity.
I Am Jazz by Jessica Herthel and Jazz Jennings
Based on real-life experience, Jazz Jennings is a transgender child who has felt that she’s had a girl’s brain in a boy’s body from the age of two.
10,000 Dresses by Marcus Ewert
This picture book explores the story of Bailey, a transgender girl who dreams of beautiful dresses. It’s a thoughtful exploration of gender identity and expression.
They, She, He, Me: Free to Be! by Maya Christina Gonzalez and Matthew SG
This book teaches children about pronouns and gender fluidity in a playful way and with colourful illustrations.
Introducing Teddy: A Gentle Story about Gender and Friendship by Jessica Walton
This is a touching story about a teddy bear named Thomas who reveals that she feels more like a girl and would prefer to be called Tilly.
5. Culture, Language and Race
All these books cover topics about multiculturalism and appreciating and respecting different people, languages, races and ethnicities.
Let’s Celebrate!: Special Days Around the World by Kate DePalma
Learn about 13 holidays from around the world through a child’s eye view, including Eid al-Fitr in Egypt, Día de Muertos in Mexico and more!
Let’s Talk About Race by Julius Lester
Through striking illustrations and simple explanations, this book introduces the concept of race as well as how we all have a story to tell about ourselves.
All People Are Beautiful by Vincent Kelly
All People Are Beautiful is a great introduction to celebrating differences in race, culture, language and other defining characteristics.
We All Belong by Nathalie Goss
This award-winning multicultural book has beautiful illustrations and a wonderful message of respecting others, regardless of their culture or skin colour.
My Language, Your Language by Lisa Bullard
When a new girl joins Romelie’s class, she learns some Spanish from her and she finds herself curious to discover other languages that people around her speak and know, including sign language.
6. Religion
Here are some great books for introducing children to different religions and the similarities that many of them share.
My Religion, Your Religion by Lisa Bullard
David is a Christian boy whose friend invites him to attend a service at a synagogue. He learns about some of the similarities and differences between their religions.
In God’s Name by Rabbi Sandy Eisenberg Sasso
This is a book about diversity, but also unity. It introduces the idea that people around the world call the Divine by different names and that all religions and traditions deserve respect.
God’s Dream by Archbishop Desmond Tutu
The archbishop talks about his dream that all children can embrace their differences and see themselves as brothers and sisters. His words introduce us to the South African principle of ubuntu (being self through others).
7. Disability or Special Needs
Teach children to have respect, empathy, and appreciation for people with different physical abilities and special needs through these stories.
Ricky, the Rock That Couldn’t Roll by Mr. Jay
This is a cute story about a rock who is differently abled and can’t roll down the hill with his friends because he is flat on one side. With their support, he finds a way to join them.
Meeting Mimi: A Story About Different Abilities by Francie Dolan
Mimi is a new girl at school and has a physical disability but that’s not all there is to her, as her classmates will discover.
Katie Can: A Story About Special Needs by Erin Palmer
This is a story about Katie, a girl with Down Syndrome. We find out what makes her so unique.
Included by Jayneen Sanders
Included is a story about six children that teaches the concepts of inclusion, diversity, disability, equality and empathy.
I hope you’ve enjoyed this list of diversity books. Here are some simple diversity activities for preschoolers and more tips for teaching tolerance.